Moon square or opposite Pluto

Emotional need and power are at odds, so closeness turns into a contest. These people fear abandonment and manage it with control, or meet partners who do, and the resulting relationships run hot and secretive. Family history usually contains something unspoken. Feelings are experienced as forces rather than as information. The value of the aspect is that it will not permit a comfortable surface: the material keeps returning until it is dealt with, and the people who deal with it end up with a working knowledge of human motivation that no easier chart provides.