Moon trine or sextile Pluto

Depth and feeling cooperate. These people are emotionally unshockable, useful in a crisis, and trusted with things other people cannot say out loud. They regenerate after loss without much ceremony. The soft version of Pluto is easy to underuse: influence that has never been challenged tends to be exercised without much thought, and the emotional power gets spent on managing a family rather than on anything that would require it to grow. Nothing here forces the descent that harder Pluto contacts force, so the depth stays available and largely unvisited.