Moon square or opposite Uranus

Security and freedom are in direct conflict. These people need a stable base and sabotage it, or find that circumstances keep removing it, and the resulting pattern looks like emotional inconsistency from outside and like a trap from inside. The mother or the childhood home was often erratic. Sleep and nerves suffer. The work is separating a genuine need for autonomy from a reflex that treats closeness as confinement, and the people who do it become unusually good at intimacy that does not smother. Those who do not keep starting over with new people.