Lilith in the 1st house

Black Moon Lilith is not a body. It is a calculated point, the empty focus of the Moon's orbit, and the mean version smooths its motion into an average. It is read as the disowned or ungoverned part of a person. In the 1st house it sits on the surface: these people are read as provocative or difficult whether or not they intend to be, and they will not soften themselves on request. The cost is a reaction that arrives well before any of the intent does.