Lilith in the 4th house

Black Moon Lilith is a calculated point, not a body, and it marks what a person keeps out of sight. In the 4th house it sits in the family: the role refused, the expectation not met, the relative nobody discusses. These people often leave, or decline to reproduce the household they were raised in. What is gained is an honest home. The cost is a private anger at the family that rarely gets stated to any of them directly.