Lilith in the 7th house

Black Moon Lilith is a calculated point marking the disowned part. In the 7th house it enters partnership: these people will not be the agreeable half, and something in them stays outside the arrangement however good it is. Partners sometimes carry the wildness on their behalf instead. The cost is a fight about autonomy that recurs in different words, and an attraction to relationships where being unmanageable is the entire dynamic.