Neptune in the 8th house

The 8th house covers shared money, intimacy, loss and deep change. Neptune here dissolves the boundary between two people. Intimacy runs toward merging, impressions of a partner's state arrive unbidden, and these people tend to be unusually unafraid of mortality. The cost is joint finances left unexamined: paperwork nobody read, an arrangement taken on trust, and a loss of self inside a relationship that is far easier to see from outside than from within.