Moon square or opposite Mars

Need and aggression are at odds, so these people want closeness and pick fights, often in the same hour. Anger is uncomfortable because it threatens the security the Moon is holding, and it tends to come out late, sideways, or all at once after a long silence. Early home life usually contained conflict that was either loud or conspicuously suppressed. The work is learning that a stated objection does not end a relationship. Those who do that work end up unusually good in conflict, since they have studied it from the inside for years.