Moon square or opposite Venus
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Moon square or opposite Venus
Need and attraction pulling apart, drawing affection in unsatisfying forms until the difference is learned.
What these people need and what they are drawn to are not the same thing, so affection tends to arrive in the wrong form. They are attracted to what does not comfort them, or comforted by what they do not admire, and the split shows up as a pattern in relationships rather than as a single event. Self-worth wobbles and gets propped up with food, spending or approval. The aspect teaches discrimination the slow way. People carrying it often arrive in midlife with an unusually clear sense of what they want, having spent decades ruling things out.
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