Chiron in the 7th house

Chiron marks the wound and the competence grown from it. In the 7th house it lives in relationship: a sense of being the one who gives more, or of being left, that often predates any actual partner. These people read a relationship's dynamics accurately and are frequently the friend others bring their marriages to. The cost is an expectation of being let down that quietly shapes who gets chosen, and how little gets asked for.