North Node in the 8th house

The north node shows where growth is asked for, not what a person is fated to do. In the 8th house it points toward what is shared and what is hidden: joint money, real intimacy, and the willingness to let something end. Self-sufficiency and comfortable arrangements are usually the easier ground. The development involves depending on someone, examining a motive that would be more pleasant left alone, and letting a version of oneself be finished with.